crappy day for me and my girl *nasty stuff talked about*

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

warning if can't handle nasty sounding stuff then don't read and post.

Yea so the other day we was talking and she said she was bleeding like a period but she already had one like last week, well she was feeling her self and she said she felt a bump inside, she said it was weird feeling and couldn't describe how it felt, it ain't from me scratching her from foreplay cuz i cut my nails and file the down till i can't feel nail pressed against my own skin, she had changed her birth control which im hoping caused it but yet the doc said she could have cervical cancer since her aunt has had it and stuff. She has to go back Thursday to get test run to see if thats what is it. we are both upset about this, cuz we both was talking about us having kids in a 4-5 years. ever since she switched to the pill from the ring she been bleeding more, so im thinking its gotta be the pill making her bleed after her periods cuz she never done this before, and she also been having a discharge mucus. anybody got any ideas what could be going on O_o. btw if extra info is needed i don't use condoms when we do have smex since she won't let me. its the first time in months i feel asleep at 9pm... if she ends up having cancer we will have problems because i'll be depressed cuz of all the shit she is going to go though and then on top of that she really wants to have kids and if they have to take some shit out of her and she can't then she will be really depressed to the point of not wanting to go on with life and im going have to take care of her. It kind of figures we love each other endlessly and this shit happens.

~Fuzzy

[powder]

Sorry to hear than man. I don't have experience w/ that but i had a friend a few years back who tried a new birth control and she bled for like 3 weeks straight. I don't know if she had a lump or anything but she was all messed up and didn't turn out to be cancer.

Hope things turn out good for you guys.

[zxtwou2]

find out if she has HPV...it's the leading cause of cervical cancer...and there have been some breakthroughs lately treating it. that's Human Palpoloma Virus or somthing like that.

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

thxs guyz i'm just really hoping this is happing cuz of switching to the pills. she switched cuz the ring keep breaking and hurting her cuz it would poke the shit out of her every time she moved.

~Fuzzy

[00EscortZx2]

Good luck Fuzz, I'm sure it'll be all good. Man I hate blood =(

[2000zx2chik]

Anytime you switch birth control whether its from the ring to an IUD or the pill or what have you she gonna bleed differently cause the body is gonna react differently to the new birth control. I Hope everything is okay though.

[Hypnose Zx2]

hope everything comes out okay....
best of luck to her

[slammmed]

yeah it could be just the medicine or it could be cancer. the thing you can hope for the most is her health. If caught early she should be able to have most cancers taken care of. If for some reason you can't have children, don't let that ruin your life. There are plenty of ways to have children without birthing your own. I know its not the same but my wife had PCOS and there is a high chance of miscarriage and complications with conceieving. We put our faith out there and let the cards play how they may.

It sounds like shes already doing the best thing she can by going to the dr to have it checked out.

Accept the things you can not change, change the things you can not accept and know the difference.

[JenzZx2]

How old is she? It could be a lot of things. I don't know how far up she was feeling, but the cervix is pretty high up there and hard to get to by yourself. Some cervical changes are normal, some are not. Has she been having annual pap smears? Have they been normal? If she hasn't been tested for HPV like previously stated, it might be something she should look into. Bumps can be a lot of thigns.

Most birth control methods are by the use of hormones. Hormones do crazy things to your body including making you bleed more, have spotting, irregular periods, etc. If she keeps bleeding, maybe the pill (or this specific pill) isn't right for her.

Seriously though, I wouldn't worry until there is something to worry about. I know it sounds easy for me to say, but it's something I've been through too (not a bump, but an abnormal pap which can indicate cervical cancer). I'm still here, no cancer, and a baby to boot!

[zx2crazy]

dude sorry to hear that. My stepmom just got surgery done for Cervical cancer and shes ok. We found out she had it about a month ago but took care of it quickly. Make sure you guys find out quickly because it can be cured in its early stage with proper treatment. G/l man.

[jess]

I was going to say pretty much everything Jen said.

And if she does have regular exams, then even it she were showing early signs of cervical cancer, she could have surgery to remove those cells. I had a friend who dealt with that a few years ago, and she is fine. She doesn't have any problems at all now.

I hope it's just her birth control and nothing more. Definitely keep us posted!!

[Connal]

i'll be depressed cuz of all the shit she is going to go though and then on top of that she really wants to have kids and if they have to take some shit out of her and she can't then she will be really depressed to the point of not wanting to go on with life and im going have to take care of her.

~Fuzzy

You know what. The chances of her actually having something are slim. Yes, she very well could. But in the same aspect, it is possible for Vit to drive a ZX2 again.

If she does, she is going to be depressed. But I am wanting you to not be, and to bring her out of it.

With treatment these days, although there is no cure, it's about as close as there can be without one. With remission, and benign tumors, many people go through life having cancer, and leading normal lives.

Regardless of the outcome, be there for her. Imagine if one day you woke up and you were bleeding out your whozits. She is scared, and I know you are too. But keep up a strong front. None of this "Boo hoo" stuff. Get her to smile, take her out to eat. Buy her some flowers and snuggle with her watching cheezy movies that you would rather not watch, but she loves.

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

well we was talking about it today and she was saying that it started before switching medz. i doubt she has it but still im still alil paranoid. today ill find out whats going on though. thanks ladiez for yea help

~Fuzzy

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

well she went Thursday and doc took samples poked her to see if he would bleed, told her monday or so she will get results back. he told her in july when she comes back they will see how the pills are going, she might switch

~Fuzzy

[2000ZxT]

IMHO get your girl off the pill. Maybe I stand alone on this one, but the pill is just a hormone. Girls seem to change when they go on the pill.

Now correct me if I'm wrong, but do girl REALLY need MORE crazy hormones? I think not.

Best of luck with her condition.

PS: Has anyone else noticed the increased number of cervical cancer with the advent of the pill? I have.

[simplicity05]

I will go out on a limb and disagree with you 2k. My girl bounced between like 3 or 4 different birth controls before going on the shot (depo I think) for two years. Made her periods nonexistent, but I think the hormones were still kicking because she turned into demon girl once a month for a few days.

Now she's going off the shot and I'm scared shitless because we've never had to use condoms before and I'm not exactly excited to start. Plus she seems kinda bitchy more often right now too. So it goes I guess.

Devil's advocate on the cervical cancer rate. How do we know how many women had cervical cancer and never knew it because we either couldn't detect it or just didn't know what it was?

[JenzZx2]

There may be an increase of cervical cancer because of the risk of HPV the pill does not protect against STD's. But that's misuse of the pill, not cause FROM the pill.

And yes, hormones do crazy things to the body. Girls also change when they get pregnant, so really it's tit for tat.. ykwim? At least with the pill the changes don't come with a 2 arms, 2 legs and a set of healthy lungs at 2 in the morning.

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

The doc says now he doesn't think its cancer but won't know till the results are in, she called to see if they came back yet, and they where like nope but your blood did and you have no std's from what we can tell with that. blaahh

~Fuzzy

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

well the doc did more test they dont know whats wrong -_-

~Fuzzy

[Buster]

That's gotta be frustrating, being uncertain.

Hope it turns out well for both of you.

[TheGhostInTheMachine]

But in the same aspect, it is possible for Vit to drive a ZX2 again.

That is sig worthy.

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

umm sure..

~Fuzzy

[Spyware]

My GF's sister ended up getting some kind of cyst from her birth control, which is the main reason my GF won't go on birth control. Cyst.. Bump.. Birth control. I just thought it all fit. I'm no doctor and no expert on female hormones or reproductive systems. (Obviously)

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

well at least shes not worrying now. she would rather have cancer then anything else. she will be with me to the meet if we get one planned

~Fuzzy