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Connal
05-08-2008, 11:04 PM
Well, I was out a little late tonight. Ran out to walmart, got some new clothes for work. Sick and tired of wearing a suit and tie on casual days. So I invested in a nice shirt and some khakis.

Well I get home, decide to make a bite to eat, turn on the TV.

What comes on? Saved by the bell. Not the college years, not some cheap knock off. An episode from 91 (according to the info). I sat down, started to watch it, and started laughing. I remember watching that same episode years ago. I then watched another episode from 91, and then an episode of fresh prince from back then as well.

Then it suddenly occured to me. I have gotten to that point. When I can remember these shows from when I would come home from school, throw down my backpack, and run in to watch what was going on. I remember watching saved by the bell before running out the door to catch the bus.

Mind you, I'm really not that old. 23 is no where near retirement, or yelling at kids to get off my lawn.

It's just remembering going to school, coming home, watching these shows, and spending time with my friends. We would climb the tree out front of my house, go on hikes through the woods. Even just ride bikes around.

I took all that for granted. Now as my friends are spread out across the united states it saddens me that I won't be able to walk into class a few minutes late, and have them all laugh at me for being hung over. I won't be able to worry about how my hair looks when I am getting ready for the dance. And then get nervous about if I am going to look like a goof in front of a cute girl.

Now I know we have some older members on here. And I know we have some younger members too. And when I was younger, I always used to laugh at the saying that "youth is wasted on the young." I always thought it was kind of stupid. You are young because you have youth. Someone in their 80s can't be young. I didn't take it for what it was. It was the wisdom of those that had gone before me. The ones who had been dumped before a dance. The ones who had forgotten their homework. The ones who built tree forts, and who went camping in back yards.

As I look back on my youth, and all the fun I had, I will admit that I miss it. No bills, no worries, no responsibilities. But I will never have that again. The best friends a guy could ever ask for are always there for you. But it makes it harder when one is stationed over seas. When one is living in colorado.

So those who are old like me, raise your glasses to our youthful follies. And those that are young, remember what I said.



Sorry about the little rant. Just got nostalgic about old shows. No one remembers denver the last dinosaur though.

powder
05-08-2008, 11:26 PM
OMG i'm 26... only a couple years from my death bed.

zx2crazy
05-08-2008, 11:28 PM
cut him a break hes spreading his advice.
i'm only 17 lol

powder
05-08-2008, 11:29 PM
I'm just giving him shit. He knows it.

zx2crazy
05-08-2008, 11:31 PM
lol i hope so.

MindSpinZX2
05-08-2008, 11:35 PM
I'm only 22 and I completely hear ya. It's like the transitional phase between being a kid and being a full blown adult. Having my own place for almost the last year has really kicked that in for me. I miss high school soooo bad. But like you said, we'll never have it back.

Connal
05-08-2008, 11:39 PM
I'm just giving him shit. He knows it.

I know it lol. I'm one of the more laid back people around here.

Besides, for sending my pulley, powder gets a few good jabs in lol

david gettle
05-09-2008, 02:58 AM
Like a sign that my great grandmother used to have posted on her refrigerator said, "You can only be young once, but you can be immature forever"

Or

As one of my customers at work said once, "The biggest reason I see to have kids is so I can play with their toys."

LOL.

iceracer
05-09-2008, 07:08 AM
To grow old is inevitable.
To grow up is optional

Sir William
05-09-2008, 08:04 AM
that's my category iceracer

JonsZX2SR
05-09-2008, 08:20 AM
...or what my manager (who was about 55-57 at the time) at my first professional job used to tell me...

"Don't grow up and mature. Do you know what happens when you mature ? Your brain crystallizes. Then it isn't good for anything anymore."

I took his advice.

Seriously, if you are feeling that you are already old in your 20's you guys are in a lot of trouble. There's nothing worse than an 'old' 20-something. You ought to be able to enjoy life and be both successful and immature until yoiur early 40's.

Then you can be a fun loving middle aged person for a while.

...after that you can go back to just being mature.

With any kind of luck (and a plan) you'll die before actually getting old.

Escort Pimp
05-09-2008, 08:53 AM
I think its called a quarter life crisis. It hit me when I realized I couldn't date highschool girls anymore. lol

Canuck
05-09-2008, 09:22 AM
Yeah... quarter life crisis... I guess I went through that.

I think if I lose my job I may return to being a kid for a while. Close out all my accounts, pay everything off. Spend the summer hiking... High Sierra Trail, John Muir Trail, hang around in Yosemite for a while... That would be awesome..

2TonCat
05-09-2008, 10:52 AM
Hahahah! I know how you feel man! I'm 21 and am thinking the same.

I do yell at people to get off of my lawn though. :cjw:

ImCrazy
05-09-2008, 10:58 AM
I know how u feel dude, I'm 23 i'll finish up my bachelors in a year and hopefully finally start my living in the real world lol.

af3ll
05-09-2008, 11:14 AM
I'm 25 and don't feel old at all.

krux
05-09-2008, 03:19 PM
Im 20..turning 21 here in a month and i hear ya. When i see those shows and kids from high school just out there throwing the football and having a good time..i always think about when me and my friends use to do that. Now there all either lazy or got fat over the years. I am hitting quarterly life freak out too. I am not going to graduate from college and be released in the real world.

Sir William
05-09-2008, 03:39 PM
c'mon you guys..... I'm almost 40 and yeah I know I make "Old guy" jokes about myself all the time..... But I don't feel any different than I did when I was 20. Well except for the odd squeak and rattle in the bones, forgetting stuff all the time, getting called Sir, being asked if I have my seniors card, having boy scouts offer to help me across the road.... etc.

JK on the exceptions btw.... you have plenty of living to do and should in no way feel old yet..... and especially not act it!!

aprophetofone
05-09-2008, 03:57 PM
im 23 and i act like im a little over 15. im having the greatest time of my life right now, i live on my own, i can get myself around, i have a very good job making decent pay and no one monitoring my every move. i can be as childish as i want to be.

david gettle
05-09-2008, 03:59 PM
Exactly, I'm 42 and normally refer to my ZX2 as "My mid-life crisis car". but I say that as a joke. I still am enjoying life (in spite of spending most of my time at work). I have no intention of "acting my age" I still like to go on 60 mile bicycle rides, play frisby etc. I have a second cousin that is pushing 90 and he is still working for a living (and still out-works some people half his age)

aprophetofone
05-09-2008, 04:06 PM
bah him and his great work ethic......
dont get me wrong i work hard as all get up (im a welder) but i like to have a 15 minute breaks inbetween jobs.

Connal
05-09-2008, 05:10 PM
Now don't get me wrong. When I say I feel old, I don't mean old as in middle aged or retirement. I mean I realize finally that my "childhood" is long since gone, and that I will never have those care free days.

Look at half my posts. I have the maturity of a palm tree.:)

havocsmaster
05-09-2008, 06:25 PM
when i was 15, 20 was old, when i was 20, 40 was old, now that im almost 40, i guess old would have to be...say...120? its all how you look at things, and how you accept them, have fun, cry, scream, get mad, whatever, but remember that you are alive and at least 1 person loves you(that would be me) luckily i have a wife and two kids that do also!!

silverzx2ner
05-11-2008, 08:16 PM
haha i know whar ur saying. i just turned 24 time flies i guess. I went 2 a party last night and everyone was younger than me and wrestling each other. I guess we all did the same things in our highschool days. I've had alot of good times though i don't really regret anything.

younglink309
05-12-2008, 06:18 PM
I think its called a quarter life crisis. It hit me when I realized I couldn't date highschool girls anymore. lol


damn, i can't date high school girls either...

of course, that has nothing to do with age...

*is 17*

Manbearpig
05-12-2008, 08:24 PM
All you young kids in here.