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00zx2s/r
05-16-2008, 01:30 PM
Warning: this thread involves some girl drama.

Alright so I'm a junior in highschool and am a certified diversity facilitator, which means I can go to schools and teach kids about diversity. Well last night my friend called me asking if I want to help all day w/ a diversity program called, Word up Word out, which was at my school. I said yes because I figured it would give me sumin to do.

So I come into this, this morning, and know nothing about wuts guna happen. I find out that I'm helping another profressional facilitator from Western Michigan, to teach freshman. So I'm like cool, wutever I'll just sit back and observe and be a lil helper. So the kids are workin on an activity and I'm walking around helpin the groups, makin sure they stay on track. When I get to a table, there's a girl there who is just amazing. we talked about the subject a bit, basically flirting the whole time.

Then throughout the day, whenever she would talk, after she would look at me and just smile, sometimes we'd laugh. But no joke, I couldn't take my eyes off her and she basically returned the "love". lol. At lunch, she asked me if I knew this kid in my grade, figured she somehow knew him, so I told my honest opinion about how I don't like him, he can be a jerk, just annoying. I come to find out that she's dating him.... lol. I'm like shit! lol. well we laugh about it and all and just keep flirting basically. Afterwords she's about to leave, and I looked at her and was like, "you should stay and help me!!! :biggrin:" and she was excited and stayed.

So we're they're washing posters off and we're talking, jokin, all this stuff and it was awesome. I seriously have never felt this way about someone (I know I don't understand love and shit, but this isn't love) but it felt like something out of a movie! So were talking and she's like, I dont' want to go to 8th block. Alright, so I ask her if she wants to go out to lunch with me. She says yes and we leave like 15 minutes later. We go to subway and are there for about an hour and we talk the whole time. We head back to school and wait in the parkin lot for 20 minutes till the bell rings so we can get back in. We head in and talk down the hall then say good bye when we part.

Well some things I found out; she plays hockey and softball, we both listen to the same music and have interests in the same bands, both have same morals and such, enjoy some of the same activities, and some other random stuff. But we get along great, and it's awesome

The bad: she's dating someone who absolutely hates me and so she can't exactly tell him that were friends...

But I got her number and we talked about going to a couple concerts this summer, and just hopefully gettin together to hang out sometime!!! But i'm kinda nervous about her bf finding out cuz that could turn ugly. Plus just the fact of her not being single, will make this a lot harder... So do you think I should go for it???



Summary:
I met a beautiful freshman girl, we get along great, have a lot in common, got her number, we went out to lunch, talked a lot. It was a great time. But she's dating someone who hates me... Is she worth the fight to get?

2000zx2chik
05-16-2008, 01:36 PM
Honestly Sound like a good time but that it could be trouble..

PHeller
05-16-2008, 01:44 PM
you have a few options

1) Bail out, and keep in touch just enough to know when they break up to swoop in.
2) Make a move, hope he doesn't kill you or you don't piss her off.
3) Stay friends, stay in shadows, never have a chance, listen to her complain about him but never leave him, be depressed, find a girl of your own, watch as she becomes single, and miss your chance.

zxtuner98
05-16-2008, 01:55 PM
freshmen girls. ahhh lol. good luck. maybe shell dump him and hook up with the kid with the yellow car....on blocks :P

scort2498
05-16-2008, 02:06 PM
im kinda in the same boat. with this egyptian chick (amazing) but she is going out with a friend/coworker. so instead of trying to barge in im shooting heer a text every once in a while but(knowing she isn't really happy with there relationship) im letting it take it's course. so i dont look like the bad guy trying to pry people apart. then if she is still into me like she has been showing here and there. my patience will be payed off. Thats just what i would do.

00zx2s/r
05-16-2008, 02:36 PM
freshmen girls. ahhh lol. good luck. maybe shell dump him and hook up with the kid with the yellow car....on blocks :P

hahaha just maybe! but no I drove her in my parents ford expedition and she was like WHOA this thing is huge. I laughed and was like it's my parents cuz my car's at home...

PHeller
05-16-2008, 03:16 PM
im kinda in the same boat. with this egyptian chick (amazing) but she is going out with a friend/coworker. so instead of trying to barge in im shooting heer a text every once in a while but(knowing she isn't really happy with there relationship) im letting it take it's course. so i dont look like the bad guy trying to pry people apart. then if she is still into me like she has been showing here and there. my patience will be payed off. Thats just what i would do.

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rusty
05-16-2008, 06:17 PM
Freshman girls dont know what they want yet, and it sounds to me like you have this feeling because it is new to you and you like the attention. I know you are still young, and obviously she is as well. I say what you should do is take her out, be nice and she will start to see that you are a better pick than the other guy sonce girls that age like to jump from one guy to the next because they too like the attention. Then, when the time is right, piitb.

00zx2s/r
05-16-2008, 07:02 PM
Freshman girls dont know what they want yet, and it sounds to me like you have this feeling because it is new to you and you like the attention. I know you are still young, and obviously she is as well. I say what you should do is take her out, be nice and she will start to see that you are a better pick than the other guy sonce girls that age like to jump from one guy to the next because they too like the attention. Then, when the time is right, piitb.

wow ur like an expert! lol. but ya I do like the "attention" because I've been single for 2 years now and it sucks... lol. But it's just that I've never had this "bond" with someone like this. Like we talked and laughed the whole time kinda like in the movies, where they're doin sumin and havin so much fun then bam it's a make out scene! but w/o the make out scene... lol and I must say no to the: piitb. Yes it does stop pregnencies (sp?) but that just grosses me out... lol

ZX2guy19
05-16-2008, 08:14 PM
Did you just say anal grosses you out? Please sir, stop living, lol.

On a more serious note, I think all these guys are wrong. The girl I am talking to now, was dating a guy for 10 months and I like to think I played a role in splitting them up, and now my fingers smell of her vagine (in a good way) so I got what I wanted (her, not the vagine) and all is well. I say split them up. Be a man (not saying you aren't) and if the little prick wants to fight you, kill him, lol jk. But seriously man, go for what you want.

00zx2s/r
05-16-2008, 08:24 PM
woot woot I'm on the phone with her!!!!!!!!! I'll reply to ur brad in a sec.

ZX2guy19
05-16-2008, 08:29 PM
I won't read it until tomorrow. The girl that I fought for is on her way to my house for the night.

See?

inis
05-16-2008, 08:48 PM
its childish to try and date someone that is already taken.

Connal
05-16-2008, 10:50 PM
Here you go.

1. Become good friends with her
2. Get her in bed.
3. Take pics.
4. Show pics to her boy.
5. Laugh and when he hits you, sue him for assault and claim some crazy reason.
6. Send Connal 10% for his legal advice.


Or I don't know. Take her out for coffee or something.

ZX2guy19
05-17-2008, 07:38 AM
its childish to try and date someone that is already taken.

Not if he is a pompous asshole.

rusty
05-17-2008, 09:09 PM
wow ur like an expert! lol. but ya I do like the "attention" because I've been single for 2 years now and it sucks... lol. But it's just that I've never had this "bond" with someone like this. Like we talked and laughed the whole time kinda like in the movies, where they're doin sumin and havin so much fun then bam it's a make out scene! but w/o the make out scene... lol and I must say no to the: piitb. Yes it does stop pregnencies (sp?) but that just grosses me out... lol

I feel the same way right now because i havent been in a "serious" relationship for about 2 years, but i hang out with girls and do what i need to do. But lately ive been talking to this girl that kind of sparks my attention, so im just gonna try to go for it. What you should do, is just show her a good time and see where it goes from there. And dont get discouraged if she acts immature either, i mean she IS a freshman, and freshman girls are generally dumb.

Also, get pics.

Tits or GTFO. lol

00zx2s/r
05-17-2008, 09:25 PM
^ ya I talked to 3 college co workers tonight and all of em said to just try and hang out with her. Take her to lunch or coffee or sumin. Basically just try and hang out w/ her and show her how much fun I can be. To try and not rush anything and to not bring up her bf that much. Well I can't get tits since she's not that type of girl but I can get you a couple pics off her space... I can do that right? I know I got bitched at last time but I think that was cuz it was underage tits! lol.

rusty
05-17-2008, 09:33 PM
If they are underage tits, send them to me for approval lol.

No seriously, use good judgment.

00zx2s/r
05-17-2008, 09:53 PM
I already said there weren't tits cuz she's not like that but I'll get a few in a sec here.

00zx2s/r
05-17-2008, 10:01 PM
here ye be:

Pedobear
05-17-2008, 10:06 PM
Pedobear approves!

00zx2s/r
05-17-2008, 10:07 PM
Pedobear approves!

you better approve! lol

rusty
05-17-2008, 10:10 PM
Woa. Watch out for her dad. He might piiyb for messing with his daughter. lol

00zx2s/r
05-17-2008, 10:11 PM
her dad isn't around much... especially now that the parentals are getting a devorce...

rusty
05-17-2008, 10:14 PM
She looks dtf.

00zx2s/r
05-17-2008, 10:15 PM
dtf?

my guess is: down to f^*(... and if so, then no... but I'm ok w/ that