How do I get to know a girl that i barely see?

[younglink309]

I'm in high school...>_>

I only see this girl for a few minutes before class and I see her in the hall a few times... not much...

any suggestion with my pathetic, insignificant teen problem?

[capitalcrew]

Say, "hey" and make small talk when you see her. Then get her screen name or something and talk for a while there. Then go n chill.

Why is this so hard for everyone.

[droptoutzx2]

grow some balls and say something to her

[capitalcrew]

grow some balls and say something to her

Pretty much.

[younglink309]

Well, it's not "OMG I'M NERVOUS I CAN"Y TALK TO HER!!!"

It's "Hey, how's it goi-" *bells rings* "damnit"

I hardly know her well enough to ask for her number... and i'm NOT a fan of myspace...
>_>

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

up say then some small chat, before the bell hits get screen name then after you chat on the web get her number and ask her to go chillin with yea.

~Fuzzy

[droptoutzx2]

no joke girls like that more then anything have the confidence to talk to her

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

well if the bell is that short write her a note =p and fold it up cute chicks dig that, or well chicks dig that around here. thats how i got all my ex's lol

~Fuzzy

[droptoutzx2]

this is why girls date guys that are assholes, because the assholes have the balls to ask them out!

[capitalcrew]

Don't make yourself look like a homo with a note.

Just say, "Hey, could you give me your screen name since the bell cuts us short every day".

Not exact words but the bell cutting you short is a perfect excuse to ask without it being awkward.

[capitalcrew]

this is why girls date guys that are assholes, because the assholes have the balls to ask them out!

tr00f.

[younglink309]

no joke girls like that more then anything have the confidence to talk to her


I have no issues talking to her.

Anyway... We'll see... I have a class with a friend of her's, but i'm not sure how classy it is for a jr. in high school to ask a girl's friend about her...>_>

[younglink309]

laddertheory.com

[capitalcrew]

Don't ask her friend, just ask her.

[droptoutzx2]

find out her basic info like weither she has a man or not so you dont look like a jackass, and seriously just get a myspace just so you can find her and message her! done deal

[droptoutzx2]

you can search your whole high school and find her easy

[krux]

show her the goods..always worked for me..hmmm

[droptoutzx2]

cant always do that krux not all girls like shrimp, some are allergic

[ZX2guy19]

Text. It works wonders.

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

Don't make yourself look like a homo with a note.


there is nothing homo about a note -_- if you dont have the time to talk its the next best thing, and btw get her class schedule so you can figure out how to see her more =p you gota make the move before you she keeps you in the friend zone cuz you won't be able to get out of it

~Fuzzy

[krux]

dont do a note..i can see people ripping on you for that one. Just talk to her and be cool..if she acts like B**tch then screw it and walk forward like you dont need her. If she is intersted she will come after you. Shrimp..hey some girls might like it ;)..haha jk

[mellowness65]

alcohol and roofies








jk

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

a note with his info isn't going to make him the laughing stalk of the skool and wont get him ripped on. as long as you keep it short and to the point, the dude saying he doesn't have time for a good conversation. hell if your skool does multiple lunches then find out her lunch time and get out of class and run down there and talk to her. i use to do that all the time.

~Fuzzy

[younglink309]

a note with his info isn't going to make him the laughing stalk of the skool and wont get him ripped on. as long as you keep it short and to the point, the dude saying he doesn't have time for a good conversation. hell if your skool does multiple lunches then find out her lunch time and get out of class and run down there and talk to her. i use to do that all the time.

~Fuzzy

I think we have the same lunch, but i can never seem to find her...I've looked. I saw her at lunch one time, she actually came and said hi to me, but i haven;t seen her at lunch since...

[younglink309]

I think i'm gonna ask for her info...

I don't have much time so... I think this might work...

"Hey, i think you're interesting, so can I have your *number/SN* so I can give you a chance to prove me right?"

opinions?

[rusty]

Eh doesnt flow off the toungue it seems.

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

lol go around and look for her manz. go chat with a few friends that sit at different tables and look for her, while walking look for her. it can't hurt. im out of skool and from a small town so i guess the way we got girls are different. hell if i wanted to catch a girls eye i would find 3 other people and play hacky sack during lunch -_-

~Fuzzy

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

"Hey, i think you're interesting, so can I have your *number/SN* so I can give you a chance to prove me right?"


:eek: ....i dont think that will work....

~Fuzzy

[younglink309]

lol go around and look for her manz. go chat with a few friends that sit at different tables and look for her, while walking look for her. it can't hurt. im out of skool and from a small town so i guess the way we got girls are different. hell if i wanted to catch a girls eye i would find 3 other people and play hacky sack during lunch -_-

~Fuzzy

Hm...

I sit with the only real friends I have in that lunch...>_>

I'll figure something out...

As far as the line...

"Hey, i think you're interesting, so here's my number, prove me right."

trouble with that is, i'm giving her the power to call or not call, and that's bad...hmmm

[ZX2WV]

dude, when you see her just be like, hey, can i have your number.

its not hard. dont make it complicated.

i agree with brad. text. it works wonders.

quit being a panzy and get a myspace.

if your serious, your gonna have to step your game up.

[younglink309]

dude, when you see her just be like, hey, can i have your number.

its not hard. dont make it complicated.

i agree with brad. text. it works wonders.

quit being a panzy and get a myspace.

if your serious, your gonna have to step your game up.

Oh, I have a myspace, I just don't use it to get girls...

myspace.combobonlylittle

if anyone cares...>_>

I'll ask for her number tomorrow, but not before class, the hallway gives me more time and makes me less likely to be overheard by people I have to sit next to for the next hour and five minutes XP

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

get a myspace and find her if you have to, just dont use that line flat out ask her for her number cuz you wana chat more.

~Fuzzy

[00zx2s/r]

I personally am against asking for the girls number right off the bat. It just doesn't work all the time...

Do wut Fuzzy said and get schedule and all and make a greater attempt at talkin to her. Use facebook or myspace. Shit, I'll even set one of the 2 up for you and do the searchin!!!! Is she a hottie???? lol jp. But ya...

[capitalcrew]

Walk up to her. Talk to her. Don't say, "you seem interesting." that is stupid. Just say you don't have time to talk to her so you want to give her a call sometime.

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

if you have a schedule then you can use that to walk the halls between class, figure a way to meet her on the way to your class. at least she knows your interested in her by rying to see her more, just don't over due it by acting like a stalker.

~Fuzzy

[younglink309]

Oh, she was the one that should be worried about creeping me out...

I have found her staring at me several times in class...

but yeah... tomorrow...

*deep breath*

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

well if your in class together thats a good time to talk to her

~Fuzzy

[rusty]

I was caught staring at this azn girls ass at the mall today.
Kinda awkward since it was blatent that i was in deep thought about how i would like it served.
Then she kinda smiled and i decided to talk to her.

Moral of the story: Stare at her ass and she will feel so awkward that she will HAVE to talk to you.

[00zx2s/r]

GET VIDEO FOOTAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol that way we can give u better tips! lol

[rusty]

Or perhaps newdz?

00zx2s/r, you'll have to cover your eyes for those.

[younglink309]

well if your in class together thats a good time to talk to her

~Fuzzy

If this weren't an AP class and we didn't sit on opposite sides of the room, I'd do this without a doubt...

but alas, it's a college level class (so no real group work) and we sit on opposite sides of the room...facing each other (silver lining, eh?)

[00zx2s/r]

wtf???? she's like my age! I've seen it all before!

[00zx2s/r]

wtf is sliver lining???? and that blows... use sign language!

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

dont listen to russ he don't know nothing about women. the only women he got was powders mom

~Fuzzy

[rusty]

Thats all the woman i need in my life.

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

lol

~Fuzzy

[00zx2s/r]

Thats all the woman i need in my life.

QFT!!! :partynanas: :hitnana::ttnana: :bangnana:





omg YES we have this guy back!!!! he's my favorite! :dance:

[younglink309]

wtf is sliver lining???? and that blows... use sign language!

Well, the silver lining is that we tend to glance at each other at the same time...

>_>

i'm easily amussed...

[00zx2s/r]

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! you could hit that within like 24 hours!

[capitalcrew]

This thread turned to complete shit.

[00zx2s/r]

just like ur posts?







jp

[younglink309]

This thread turned to complete shit.

Is that what that smell is?

[capitalcrew]

just like ur posts?







jp


No, like yours.

Aye, that be the smell.

[rusty]

QFT!!! :partynanas: :hitnana::ttnana: :bangnana:





omg YES we have this guy back!!!! he's my favorite! :dance:

Glad I could be of service n00b.

[00zx2s/r]

stfu russ

[AZN_ZX2]

if the bell rings go late a bit. talk to her a few times since you only see her briefly then get her number

[rusty]

stfu russ

Yea because your status at this point will ultimately threaten me. Go away please.

[00zx2s/r]

if the bell rings go late a bit. talk to her a few times since you only see her briefly then get her number

good plan. don't rush it by asking number on first "talk to". Good luck!

[JonsZX2SR]

Whatever happened to having a few brief chats, then asking for a phone number. Phone number could be a cell number.

Another approach is to ask here if she'd like to meet during a free period, during lunch or after school for a chat.

Life is only as complicated as you make it...

[capitalcrew]

Thank you Jon, finally. The first and last line of that post sum it all up.

[younglink309]

Well, I started talking to her before class, and we got interupted by the teacher having us take our seat.

I go sit down, do my classwork, etc.

after class i catch up to her in the hallway and say "Well, it seems any time try to talk to you we get interupted by something, So, can I have your number?"

She responded "I assume you have a myspace, i'll look you up and email you my info"

Now I play the waiting game. I don't know if she will actually do it or if she will "keep forgetting." I'm gonna stay optimistic and keep an eye on my email...

I hate myspace...

[AZN_ZX2]

Hm thats a stupid answer. She could've just told you then and there

[00zx2s/r]

Hm thats a stupid answer. She could've just told you then and there

x2.... hmmm she sounds suspicous.... You should said u dont have a myspace! Then wut would she do?

[Buster]

You kids and your cyber-dating...


Just walk up and ask her to go out for a burger or pizza or a movie or ice cream or meeet you SOMEWHERE OTHER THAN A COMPUTER. :D

If she says no, ask her friend. Keep asking until someone says yes.

One of these days you'll get an email saying "YES". You'll meet her at the mall and she'll end up being your 45-year old male gym teacher.

If you can't ask face to face, you don't deserve a date.


Yeah, I'm an old man.

[AZN_ZX2]

Try cornering her. Girls love that.

[younglink309]

Well, before saying that, she checked her pockets like she was looking for a piece of paper..

she seemed genuine to me, and I can usually tell when a girl is rejecting me before she opens her mouth...

I hate the whole online thing too. I would much rather just get her number and invite her somewhere.

But this is the game I must play...

[jess]

Well, If She Gives You Her Number On Myspace, What's The Big Deal?

Just Wait For It And See What Happens.

[Buster]

Try cornering her. Girls love that.


Yeah, sure...

Then her dad corners YOU! :run:

[Buster]

Well, before saying that, she checked her pockets like she was looking for a piece of paper..

she seemed genuine to me, and I can usually tell when a girl is rejecting me before she opens her mouth...

I hate the whole online thing too. I would much rather just get her number and invite her somewhere.

But this is the game I must play...



Start pursuing Amish girls. :rofl:

[AZN_ZX2]

Yeah, sure...

Then her dad corners YOU! :run:

Hahaha yeah for real

[AZN_ZX2]

Well, If She Gives You Her Number On Myspace, What's The Big Deal?

Just Wait For It And See What Happens.

Whats with capitalizing the first letter of every word?

[Mike]

Why don't you just contact her on HER myspace...if that's what she wants. I say talk to her for a lil while there, and see where it goes...that is if she isn't going to give you her number right off the bat.

Oh and do you know if she's already banging another dude or not?...That may slow this process down...

[Buster]

Oh and do you know if she's already banging another dude or not?...That may slow this process down...

Slow it down? That should END the process.

Unless you want itchy underwear and a broken heart. :alienanana:

[Mike]

Some guys just don't care.....you know...the...man whores..

The OP doesn't seem like one...but I was just throwing that out there... ;)

[younglink309]

Why don't you just contact her on HER myspace...if that's what she wants. I say talk to her for a lil while there, and see where it goes...that is if she isn't going to give you her number right off the bat.

Oh and do you know if she's already banging another dude or not?...That may slow this process down...

Oh yeah, she's single. I made sure of the before I even spoke to her the 1st time.

And I'm not a man-whore type. still a virgin over here...>_>

[Mike]

Good for you...stick to porn...you can't get it pregnant....


Have you tried looking for her myspace?

[CJW]

keep stalking her until she notices.

[younglink309]

Good for you...stick to porn...you can't get it pregnant....


Have you tried looking for her myspace?

lol..well...

Even absitinance failed once...>_>

But no...


I.HATE.MYSPACE

I got one when I moved to TX from PA to keep in touch with my friends. I lost touch anyway...but yeah...

[Mike]

Well I don't mess around with that voodoo myspace crap either...but if she has one...it might be a good way to talk to her.

[capitalcrew]

Nothing wrong with that, and don't let any one tell you otherwise mang. Seriously.

[younglink309]

well, she randomly texted me at work (which is fine)

She got my number from my/her friend.

yay!

[Mike]

YAY! Now that is a good sign...she actually went out of her way...kinda...and got your number...

Now propose and call it day. ;)....j/k of course..

Hopefully this progresses...

[silverfrost]

Well there you go.

[younglink309]

Yup, she's not being really talkative, but that's just her personality.

When I get home I'll see about some screen name, or maybe ask if it's ok to call her (i'm not sure what her after-school schedule is like)

should be fun.

[Mike]

Yeah...one would hope...

[OGreaTFuzzY1]

yay he is getting the girl:ttnana: just try to stay out of the friend zone

~Fuzzy

[younglink309]

yay he is getting the girl:ttnana: just try to stay out of the friend zone

~Fuzzy

Dude, i'm a walking friend zone, lol:shrug:

but i think i've got this...
*crosses fingers*

[Mike]

Yea...if you stay out of the friend zone..it might just get you to the bed zone...

Ok yeah that was gay...lol

Yeah...just try and see if she's into you and crap. If not...it'd be the "right" thing to stay friends...if she wants...but you wouldn't have to...

[AZN_ZX2]

what what in the butt

[00zx2s/r]

Congrats. Hope it works out!

[jess]

well everything sounds good :-)

keep us posted

[Hypnose Zx2]

grow some balls and say something to her

THERE!

[00EscortZx2]

Try cornering her. Girls love that.

haha that's like cornering a cheetah.

[AZN_ZX2]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aoRD1wmvwUc&feature=related

[2000zx2chik]

just give her your e-mail addi.. that gives her the upper hand on if she wanst to talk to you or not.. if she doesnt email ya then she doesnt wanna talk to ya

[Mike]

Yeah...take the advice from a chick....she'll know. :)

[capitalcrew]

He already kind of did that. She said she'd find his myspace and give it to him there. If she doesn't ever give it to him, well, there ya go. haha.

Why am I still here?! I am starving. Later guys.

[2000zx2chik]

He already kind of did that. She said she'd find his myspace and give it to him there. If she doesn't ever give it to him, well, there ya go. haha.

Why am I still here?! I am starving. Later guys.

what happens if she cant remember his full name or doesnt know his emial.. then how is she gonna find the myspace page? i mean i knwo theres other ways to find it but if shes not that interested shes not gonn ago the distance to get it

[capitalcrew]

If she's not interested enough to look for his myspace then I doubt shes interested enough for anything else. Besides, if she can't find it I'm sure she'll just say "hey, I couldn't find your myspace, heres mine" or something to that effect. If she doesn't.. oh well, cut your losses. which in this case, are virtually nothing.

[younglink309]

yeah, she has my number, and we texted a bit last night, but I haven't seen anything on my myspace form her...

[2000zx2chik]

well shit if you have her number then call her

[younglink309]

I will, but I'm at work, and she has volleyball practice tonight, i'm not sure wen that ends...

But I will

[jess]

well, if you have each other's numbers....then you don't really need to worry about myspace.

[Soadrocksever]

laddertheory.com

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[Robend]

your best bet is to give her your contact info. that way she doesnt think you're a creep and going to stalk her, and that way she has the option to talk to you, she doesnt have to worry about you calling her if she's not interested. its always worked for me at the bars, clubs, high school, college, work.

[younglink309]

your best bet is to give her your contact info. that way she doesnt think you're a creep and going to stalk her, and that way she has the option to talk to you, she doesnt have to worry about you calling her if she's not interested. its always worked for me at the bars, clubs, high school, college, work.


that goes against what I've learned so far...but.. my record hasn't been too great...

I always figured you didn't put the girl in the postion to choose whether or not to call you. I dunno...

I'm picking up vibes that she isn't interested... but I may be overthinking things..

I tend to do that...
*gets distracted*

[younglink309]

Well, I called her...

She didn't answer, and I'm not gonna keep calling her. I already look like a lost puppy following her around...

So...I'm done unless she makes any moves towards me...

[jess]

Probably a good move.

If you'd keep calling she'd probably start talking to her friends about how you never leave her alone, and then you'd eventually be known as the creepy stalker guy, haha

[younglink309]

yeah

fuck it...

[00zx2s/r]

try talking to her again before class

[onenonly696]

getting girls becomes soooo easy once you understand how "the game" works :bangnana:

[capitalcrew]

Getting girls becomes easy once you stop trying to get girls, understand that girls are people too, and just talk to them like you would anyone..

[ZX2guy19]

SO FUCKING TRUE ERIC. No joke. Now that me and rae aren't together, it's easy.

[onenonly696]

Exactly. Just put the idea of "trying to get with her" in the back of your head.